Bookstagram drama, but make it a marketing lesson


If you were anywhere near Bookstagram this week, you probably saw the drama.

A major Bookstagrammer posted that some of the books she used to love are no longer books she supports because of her “biblical convictions.”

And listen, people can change their minds. People can evolve and decide something is not for them anymore.

But that is not why people got upset.

What made everyone collectively go, girl... what? was the way it felt like religion was being used as a convenient excuse to judge authors, readers, and identities that do not fit her personal interpretation of the Bible.

It was judgmental hate. Period.

Which is especially wild when you remember she built a big chunk of her platform by openly loving, recommending, and benefiting from those same books, authors, and readers.

So yeah. People had thoughts, but here is the part I actually loved.

The response from the broader Bookstagram community was so good.

Instead of just letting the whole thing sit there like a dark little cloud over the internet, so many readers and creators came together to post books they are reading “with conviction,” and it turned into this huge show of support for authors, for each other, for LGBTQ readers and communities, and so much more.

And honestly? It was beautiful.

People were loud in the best way. They were accepting, funny, kind, passionate, and supportive.

They were making it very clear that there is still plenty of room on the internet for stories that reflect real people, messy people, queer people, complicated people, and people who do not need to pass somebody else’s purity test to deserve empathy.

New accounts popped onto my feed and comment sections felt like little reunion parties for people who share the same values.

It became one of those weird internet moments where something ugly accidentally helped the right people find each other faster.

Love that for us.

And because I am me, I cannot help but turn this into a marketing takeaway.

Actually, two of them.

1. Jump on the moment fast.
Whether we want to call this a trend, discourse, drama, or just a chaotic week online, the people who joined the conversation early were the ones who helped shape it.

They did not wait until the moment passed. They showed up while people were paying attention.

2. Do not be afraid to ruffle feathers.
Now, to be clear, I do not agree with her take. At all. But one thing she was not afraid to do was say exactly what she believed.

And the people responding were not afraid either. That is part of why the reaction was so strong. People respond to people who are actually willing to stand for something.

The internet does not really reward blandness. It rewards people who say something real, even if that means not everyone claps.

This whole thing started with one person trying to make reading feel smaller, narrower, and more exclusive.

Instead, a whole lot of readers used it as a chance to make the space bigger.

Those are my people 🫶🏻

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